2 Corinthians 4:16-18
" Therefore we do not lose heart!!
Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.
So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen.... is eternal."
I guess when you come through much trauma and hurt in your life, there comes a time when you can't bear any more.
This could be termed denial.
It's where I stand in regard to the devastation in New Zealand.
Tonight I allowed myself to watch the evening news..
Only to hear of a man caught under rubble whose life depended on amputation.
The doctor interviewed described how this man would have died in approximately 15 minutes as his legs were crushed.
Using tools from nearby workmen, his legs were cut off.
He is now recovering in hospital.
Grief..... at the loss of his limbs...
And what of those doctors who performed the rough operation?
Grief...... at the effect of what needed to be done.
Grief...... at the lack of hygienic conditions.
Grief...... there was no other choice!
There are many reasons for grief, and this week in N.Z. some of those reasons will become apparent.
Loss of a loved one.
Loss of a body part.
Loss of health.
Loss of a home.
Loss of income.
Loss of work.
Loss of a city.
It takes a while for reality to hit, and it hasn't yet.
The trauma builds up.
And although people put on a brave face.
No-one knows except themselves, how their heart aches.
This diagram shows the emotional walk through grief and loss.
It's something we all, at some time, walk alone.
No words can mend the pain, only time eventually heals.
How can we help when someone is grieving??
By simply holding a hand and listening...
By just being there.
One thing they don't need to hear is, "get over it," or "time heals."
It's a hard place to be in.
And yet there is good in everthing.
When we mourn, we are comforted.
When we sorrow, we understand anothers..
When we overcome, we grow.
Then He (Jesus) said to them:
“Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom.
There will be great earthquakes, famines and pestilences in various places, and fearful events and great signs from heaven."
Luke 21:10
(And then the end will come)...
" Therefore we do not lose heart!!
Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.
So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen.... is eternal."
I guess when you come through much trauma and hurt in your life, there comes a time when you can't bear any more.
This could be termed denial.
It's where I stand in regard to the devastation in New Zealand.
Tonight I allowed myself to watch the evening news..
Only to hear of a man caught under rubble whose life depended on amputation.
The doctor interviewed described how this man would have died in approximately 15 minutes as his legs were crushed.
Using tools from nearby workmen, his legs were cut off.
He is now recovering in hospital.
Grief..... at the loss of his limbs...
And what of those doctors who performed the rough operation?
Grief...... at the effect of what needed to be done.
Grief...... at the lack of hygienic conditions.
Grief...... there was no other choice!
There are many reasons for grief, and this week in N.Z. some of those reasons will become apparent.
Loss of a loved one.
Loss of a body part.
Loss of health.
Loss of a home.
Loss of income.
Loss of work.
Loss of a city.
It takes a while for reality to hit, and it hasn't yet.
The trauma builds up.
And although people put on a brave face.
No-one knows except themselves, how their heart aches.
This diagram shows the emotional walk through grief and loss.
It's something we all, at some time, walk alone.
No words can mend the pain, only time eventually heals.
How can we help when someone is grieving??
By simply holding a hand and listening...
By just being there.
One thing they don't need to hear is, "get over it," or "time heals."
It's a hard place to be in.
And yet there is good in everthing.
When we mourn, we are comforted.
When we sorrow, we understand anothers..
When we overcome, we grow.
Then He (Jesus) said to them:
“Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom.
There will be great earthquakes, famines and pestilences in various places, and fearful events and great signs from heaven."
Luke 21:10
(And then the end will come)...
